Jan 262 minYou, Living Another LifeWhen you interact with another person, you're interacting with yourself. That friend, family member, spouse, coworker, or even stranger,...
Nov 29, 20202 minFamilyAs I get older, time with family becomes more special. Each visit, although measured in days, feels like a lifetime rich with meaning....
Oct 22, 20202 minYou're WrongIf you think the problem is somewhere else, you're wrong. If you think you hate something, you're wrong. As hard as it might be to...
Oct 12, 20202 minRespecting Your SelfA big challenge our ego presents us with is its ability to second guess our decisions. We want to do something, and then someone else has...
Sep 24, 20201 minQuestions About QuittingWhen we feel like giving up, what is it that we really want? When things get so difficult to bear, that we just want it to stop, what are...
Aug 3, 20201 minMe, In HerePits, deeper than a black hole. Knots, tighter than a vice grip. Uncertainty, thicker than a morning mountain fog. Debris flying,...
Jul 16, 20203 minLife Is A RelationshipSo much of what matters in life actually has nothing to do with the thing in question, but rather our relationship to it. Pain and...
Jun 11, 20202 minWhom Are You Actually Living With?When you're with your partner, spouse, best friend, or child, are you really with them? Or are you with your own image of them? When...
Apr 12, 20203 minThe Problem Is Always On The InsideAs we go through life we encounter many problems. For some, life itself can feel like an endless problem, from the moment we're born to...
Feb 20, 20202 minYou Can't Handle Your HeartAnd neither can I. The truth is, none of us can handle our hearts. The very instrument that plays the most melodious, joyful notes,...
Feb 16, 20202 minLooking In All The Wrong PlacesThe things we want We all want fulfillment, so we look for a job. We want love, so we look for another person. We want freedom, so we...
Sep 22, 20194 minHow To Help Those Who Are In Pain (And Everyone's In Pain) In case you haven't noticed, people are walking around with enormous amounts of pain. Some people do a good job of hiding it. Others let...
Aug 19, 20192 minA Unique But Vital Ingredient To Relationship SuccessRelationships are like businesses. In order to thrive, they require consistent effort and a never-ending willingness to succeed. But...
Jul 3, 20192 minJust Go For The RideI've been going through some difficult times in the past few weeks. Difficult in the sense that the outside world seems to constantly be...
Jun 26, 20193 minHave You Ever Wondered Why?Have you ever wondered why we need the outside world to match our personal preferences in order to feel good? Have you ever questioned if...
Apr 3, 20193 minGetting Through That Post-Fight Feeling With Your Significant OtherUgh. That feeling after you and your partner have a fight. Maybe it wasn't even a fight. Maybe it was a disagreement, or just a weird...
Feb 13, 20195 min3 Tips for the Best Valentine's Day and a Stronger Love Life Ahh, Valentine's Day - the perfect opportunity to talk about relationships. Relationships are nothing short of magical. And tragic. They...
Feb 10, 20191 minPain go away, I stayPain. Emotions. Fear. Thoughts. Fear. Despair. Loss. Pit. Hole. Deep. Pain. Stuck. Drowning. No way out. Help. Pain. Fear. Near. Inside....
Feb 2, 20192 minWhy self-love is not what you think, and how to practice itRelationships require commitment, and perhaps the relationship that requires the most commitment is the one you have with yourself. Right...
Dec 23, 20181 minMy golden girlI want to take the opportunity to be grateful for my relationship, and wish my girlfriend a happy birthday, and a happy golden year! I've...
Dec 22, 20182 minFeeling hurt is both sucky and awesomeFeeling hurt is a weird thing. It can either be constructive, and help you in the long-run. Or it can be destructive if we don't know how...
Dec 15, 20181 minAnother key to relationship successRelationships about setting your partner up for success. Doing the dishes at night so they wake up in the morning with one less thing to...
Dec 10, 20182 minI'm just so thankfulLast night I got pretty emotional lying next to my girlfriend in bed. I couldn't help but be so damn thankful for all the joyful moments...
Dec 4, 20182 minThe Key To Any Successful RelationshipRelationships are about giving your significant other both what they want, and more importantly, what they need. What they want is style....